I’m a Forty something bad mummy….In the middle of my life, where dramas that turn into crisis happen on a far too regular basis……
I’m semi married (yes it does need explanation 
to long suffering ‘R’ with 2 beautiful daughters aged 19 & 22. I have 2 mad dogs & 2 fantastic cats. I have a large extended family and life is never usually boring. I love dancing, socialising and generally getting into lots of mischief! A few health issues has curbed my dancing, but not the desire…..the body is willing but not quite able! Although mischief is still a prerequisite!
A graphic designer of sorts, working freelance but I also have my fingers in a few other little pies. I don’t like a quiet life, but strangely, work alone…..so I blog, to ‘talk’………
I have a calling to do something outrageous and out of character….I’ve always conformed to society….but no more…..I’m ready to rebel, so watch this space!!
I’m very deep, quite misunderstood, fun….enigmatic….and very wicked! So I’m told……….
Enjoy the ride…..this is it……thoughts and all…..
The Diva <3
ps. if you’re wondering about the name ‘purplediva’ then you have to read blog entry of April 20th (plucked chicken club)….it explains all!!!
What a special lady XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
By: Shauny on October 31, 2008
at 5:44 pm
Poppet I laughed out loud in my office. Your Tree and Penguin Story had me in Tears !!
By: Robert on December 16, 2008
at 6:28 pm
Oh yes you are wicked!!
By: Gezz on January 11, 2009
at 8:21 pm
Love the new layout and picture.
And yes your wicked xx
By: Crazy Horse on January 12, 2009
at 11:42 pm
Thanks for the notice on FB. I’ll continue to keep up with you here. You are such an attractive woman. Period.
By: digher4 on March 8, 2009
at 4:25 pm
I love your site. Keep it up !
By: knowledgetoday on March 31, 2009
at 12:42 pm
I wanna tel this man he’s not the father of my child but I know it’s going to hurt him asmuch as it hurts me on a daily basis.
What do I do/
By: meek on June 11, 2009
at 5:44 pm
It may hurt him, but the pain of looking at him and knowing the truth is screwing you up inside and will make you ill if it hasn’t already. Fathers aren’t always the biological parent of a child. It doesn’t mean that he should love the child any less….but possibly more, because YOU have chosen him to share your child and life and truth. You MUST tell him. Not for his sake but for yours. If you’re not happy, no one can be happy. If he truly loves you, then you will weather the storm and come through it and he will love you more for the strength you have shown in your honesty, and ability to accept the consequences….because it could possibly not go your way, and you must be prepared for that. If that’s the case, then he isn’t the right person…..if he isn’t prepared to stand by you for YOU, then the relationship would be based on a lie….not ideal in the long term. The truth may hurt, but living the lie hurts a LOT more in the end. I wish you all the luck in the World, be strong and be true to yourself. Good Luck
By: purplediva on June 12, 2009
at 7:22 am